When I reminisce to the days when I played on organized and competitive teams, what I miss the most isn't playing the sport but instead the hype on game days, the team bonding and meals we had after school while waiting for the evening games, the dress code we had to wear on certain days, the practices and conditioning that the whole team would dread together, the morning announcements or articles in the newspapers talking about our victories or performance, and even our team huddles before, during, and after games. With all these things that I miss, I can essentially say that I don't exactly miss the sport itself but I miss more of being a part of a competitive team. There are many chances for me to play the sports such as pick up games or intramurals, but playing the sports in these ways isn't the same as it was when I played for a club, middle school, high school, or city team. When I play pick up games there's no hype or team activities, just a bunch of people who feel like playing the sport.
My reminiscence on the things outside of actually playing the sport does not mean that I don't enjoy simply playing the sport. I love playing soccer, volleyball, or softball but it's not the same if I am not part of an organized team.
My love for sports is way more than just playing the sport or game. I love sports because of every aspect that is involved in the sport. Some people may not like practices, team bonding, or even dressing up on game days, but to me this is what makes up the sport. Whether I ended up winning or losing the game I was a part of a team that still worked together and ultimately strives for success.
My trigger definitely may be different from many others. My friend Sara, who I played soccer with for five years, always said that the things she hated the most about soccer were the practices, the stupid team bonding activities that they had to do, and having to formally dress up to school on game days. For her, she simply enjoyed playing the sport alone and would have a ball in pick up games even though they weren't competitive and serious. She would say that her trigger is simply seeing someone play with a soccer ball. Although we may have different triggers we both still end up loving soccer whether we just simply love the sport or all the other things involved in the sport.
My trigger definitely may be different from many others. My friend Sara, who I played soccer with for five years, always said that the things she hated the most about soccer were the practices, the stupid team bonding activities that they had to do, and having to formally dress up to school on game days. For her, she simply enjoyed playing the sport alone and would have a ball in pick up games even though they weren't competitive and serious. She would say that her trigger is simply seeing someone play with a soccer ball. Although we may have different triggers we both still end up loving soccer whether we just simply love the sport or all the other things involved in the sport.